Nov 23

Couldn’t we all do with more friends? I mean, who has ever said “I have enough friends”. Sure it seems like it takes a lot of time to see all of our friends but isn’t it worth it?

Being a friend to somebody doesn’t mean you have to hang out all the time. It could just be being friendly to somebody, smile at them on the street, let them in in traffic, open a door first stranger.

If you want to find a perfect relationship you never know we’re going to find it. It just might be the person you hold the door open for.

Oct 28

Try this sometime and notice the result

-smile at a stranger
-hold the door for someone
-thank the cleaning staff
-thank anyone at random

You never know what will brighten someone’s day. If we all practiced a random act of kindness once every day, this world would be a lot better place.

Mar 12

Be yourself.

You are the best You that ever was and every will be.

You are an unique individual and therefore you are special and loved.
Never betray yourself and try to be someone else just to impress someone. Who ever they are does not deserve you if that is what you feel you have to do.

If there is something about yourself you no longer like so much, find a way to change it. Take a class, read a book, get some exercise.

Become the person you want to be. Do it for yourself. Never do it for someone else.

Feb 21

Be careful what you post online.

Everything you put online is recorded and saved somewhere. If you put something, remember that one day it may come back to haunt you.

If you are using Facebook or Myspace or similar, all of your friends can (and will) see everything you do.

Remember, poster beware!

Feb 8

Do something crazy and unexpected.

Is everything you do in your relationship planned the delivered with perfect execution? Try being spontaneous at unexpected times.

If you are walking down the road with your partner, just grab there hand and dance like no one is watching.

Bring home flowers for no other reason that you love them. Call them during the day just to let them know you were thinking about them.

Just little gestures can make a huge positive impact on your relationships! Try something right now!

Be crazy and unexpected!

Feb 7

Be Yourself.

Be yourself at all times, on the phone, on a date, texting, chatting or emailing.

If you are playing games with the other person, who are they getting to know? The real you or this fake front that you are putting up?

Know who you are and put that forward. It is who you are so do not be afraid to shout it from the rooftop so to speak.

You want the other person to know you for who you really are. If you keep putting up fronts or playing games you will slip one day or you might just get lost in the games and loose who you are you.

Just be yourself. There is no one else you would rather be.

Feb 5

Listen.

Ok, maybe that did not take a minute to say.

You will be surprised how much difference you can make in your relationships just by listening to the other person. I do not mean the “uh-huh” and nod of the head. I mean hanging off of ever word that the other person is saying like there is no other sound in the world.

Since people can only really do one thing at a time, wait until the other person is done talking before thinking of a response. If you spend the whole time waiting to say something in edgewise you will miss what the other person is actually saying.

Try it sometime, you will be surprised at the results.

Hey, are you listening to me?


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